Let's talk about sex, baby! If you're dating, this is the single most important factor to keep in mind. Decide before you meet someone what your own personal rules will be. You ultimately have to be okay with yourself so remember you don't need to put out to get him to like you.
Number one or the first rule should be - do not have sex on the first date. It isn't effective to get to know him after you've had sex. Where's the fun in that? You won't be able to seduce him and create anticipation. If you put sex on hold in the beginning, you're also telling him you want more than just sex and you will prove yourself to be a high value woman.
He will stay interested if you wait. It makes him chase you, he'll want to seduce you and this waiting game will be fun for him. It will both drive him crazy and make him want you more! If you give him the trophy before the competition, chances are you won't get your needs met and he'll disappear.
Figure out the boundaries for yourself and stand firm. He doesn't get to decide when the time is right. Do what you feel is most comfortable. A good man wants a woman that sets limits and creates some mystery in the relationship. If you put out quickly he won't need to up his game with you and provide what you require.
We all know that when we start dating we're all on our best behavior, but then you slowly get to know the real person. You'll be happy with your decision to wait to have sex because you may find some skeletons in the closet. This practice of waiting will help you head off any disasters or any people you don't want in your life.
Men and women think about sex differently. A man will not connect sex and commitment unless you make it a requirement for him. If you desire an exclusive relationship with him, do not assume that just because you sleep with him that you have one. Make it clear to him that you want to be exclusive.
Are You Ready?
It sends the wrong message to a man if you have sex too early. If you get busy on the first date he may think you just want a friends with benefits situation. If you want a full fledged relationship, the best bet is to not put out right away.
Do not decide to have sex with a man because you think he'll leave if you don't. If he really is into you and is a decent guy, he'll wait until you are ready.
Have fun and get to know the man you're dating. Sex has a tendency to complicate things. Also; be smart and consider how you will protect yourself from pregnancy and possible unwanted diseases.
Everyone has expectations on what the first time with someone is going to be like. If you do a great job staving him off for a bit, the sexual tension will build and make the final moment that much more pleasurable. The more tension you have, the better. Sex will be amazing with him the longer you decide to wait.
Men have a need for sex. Not only do they need sex, but they LOVE good sex. Sex makes him feel loved and meets his needs as a man. Wear some new lingerie just for him and be so spectacular in bed that he'll never want to be with anyone else.
Have confidence in the bedroom and especially about your beautiful body. If he has been going out with you for a while now, chances are he has already accepted your body for what it is. Be confident in the bedroom, and don't try to hide your body. He wants to see it all!
Lose your inhibitions and reservations about your body. Be proud of what you have and try not to be shy. Make time to create a memorable experience for the both of you. Light candles, put on soft music and make the bed with fresh sheets. Create a special atmosphere that makes it seem special and then be prepared to make it the best for both of you.
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