1. Create/Optimise Profiles
In online marketing, there is no point in sending traffic to an offer if it does not address the wants/needs of the customer. Therefore, before we take any steps towards answering the question "How to get a girlfriend online" we must ensure that all online profiles are both set up and optimised for success, we recommend the following as a minimum:
Own website
Tinder
Optional:
OKCupid
Match.com
YouTube
We recommend adhering to the following rules whilst setting up each profile:
Natural Attraction
One of the most important aspects of profile optimisation is to be completely congruent with who you are.
Our clients always ask:
"Surely I should optimise to attract the maximum amount of traffic?"
No, you shouldn't, we tell them:
"If you target everyone, you target no one"
The goal of your profile is to target those leads that you would like to attract into your life.
How do you do that?
By clearly communicating your personality. Yes, you may lose some leads when they discover you are a closet Star Trek fan, but who cares?
If you truly are a closet Star Trek fan and this particular lead has an issue with that, then you do not mind losing them.
Only when this concept is understood, can we move onto ensuring that those lead that are compatible with your true personality are attracted.
Emotional Spikes
We all are driven to feel something, whether that be happiness, love, anger, frustration... the list goes on.
Therefore, it is crucial that when a lead (girl) is perusing your online profile (an believe me, they will... ) you must provide a full range of emotions through your pictures, videos and descriptions.
The most simple way to do this is to remove the filter we all place on ourselves in everyday life... say whatever you wish to say in your description (obviously without offending anyone).
Don't be scared to use images of yourself an other girls (as long as it doesn't seem as though you are showing off)
Making controversial yet congruent statements in you description
Posting videos that make a statement about yourself
2. Drive Traffic
a. Natural
If you have 500 friends on Facebook you have the ability to advertise to advertise to approximately 250,000 people, though in order to do this you must be sharing information (writing, pictures or videos) that people approve of (Like).
To re-iterate, in order to advertise yourself, for free...
You must spend time creating information that people Like.
We advise all of our clients to create a "Content Plan".
Using your home website as a base for this content, each of our clients releases regular content which is then shared around their other social media outposts.
The more your current network (followers, subscribers, friends) Like your content, the more advertising impressions you get for yourself.
b. Online Dating
Footprint Marketing is a technique used by intelligent marketers to identify where their potential prospects are before they purchase their service.
Luckily for us, there are hundreds of organisations that have been formed for the sole purpose of creating a database of potential prospects: Online Dating Sites.
However, we must ensure that whilst our potential prospects are viewing the aforementioned profiles, that they are able to view your other online real estate and have the ability to add themselves to your list (more on this later). To do this, all you need to do is ensure that the link to your website: the hub of your online activity.
c. Real Life
Yeah, scary right?
In order to maximise the chances of finding the perfect girlfriend within the 60 days, we need to ensure that all of our prospects have the ability to view our brand online real estate and in turn, give them a chance to assess the possibility of being our girlfriend.
Whenever you meet a potential prospect, follow them on Instagram/Facebook/Twitter and wait for them to follow back. Then as time goes on and you are sharing your content (advertisements), your prospect will be continuously reminded of your presence.
3. Convert Traffic
First, why bother obtaining their phone number before the in person date, can't you just arrange from Tinder/OkCupid/Facebook?
Yes you can, and if your lead flatly refuses to provide you with here phone number (unlikely if you use the method shown below), then go ahead and just arrange through your current medium.
However, you will enjoy a much greater acceptance rate AND much lower flake rate if a date is arranged through phone.
This is because, when you communicate with a lead on the phone, your messages will appear against those from her mum, father, brother and best friends. In other words, instead of being a strange man from the internet, she will begin to associate you with the people that are close to her.
Now, the template for obtaining the phone number is massively complex and has taken us HOURS to write out...
No not really...
We are simply looking for the greatest conversation rate...
Here we are:
"I'm leaving Facebook/Tinder/Match.com/OkCupid/Instagram, what's your phone number?"
Now, why does this work?
Fear of loss
Straight to the point
Mysterious (What's he doing? Where is he going? Why is he leaving Tinder?)
So, now you have the answer to the great question "How to get a girlfriend online" go ahead, get out there and start attracting!
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