Even though good men are quite elusive, it could be because you are looking in all the wrong places. Going to night clubs can drastically reduce your chances of finding a good and responsible man. If you are looking for a one night stand however, these could be a great place for that. If you want a man that is worth some substance and quality, you might have to get a little creative and these 10 place could be the best places to start with.
Top 10 Places to Meet the Man of Your Dreams
10. Work.
There are a variety of reasons as to why this appears last on the list. The first is that you could be breaking some of the company's policies and secondly, things could get a bit complicated if you're all housed in the same building. However, the work place is filled with great guys who you know and whose work ethic you are aware of. All you have to do is pick the best.
9. Online dating.
This is another tricky one especially given the number of creeps that are using this platform to stalk women. But, the internet is still flooded with good men. You might have to take a number of tries before you find the right fit but what the heck, it does not cost much and does not take much of your time. In most cases, you will be able to tell if a guy will be a good fit before you can even meet.
8. Seminars and workshops.
The best thing about finding men in such places is the fact that you will not have to worry about what you have in common. If he is in the same room as you, then you share something in common. It makes it easier for you strike a conversation. Additionally, men found in these kinds of setting indicate an openness to learning and admitting that they might not have all the answers which is critical for a successful relationship.
7. Volunteering.
There are so many positive things about finding a man in a volunteer setting. It says a lot about his kind personality, his availability emotionally and his desire to give back to the community and to value a good woman when he sees one and appreciate them. Your love for giving back to the community if you are not only there to try your lack is also a plus.
6. Church.
Does this have to be elaborated any further? God fearing, responsible, humble, social and a plethora of other positive features are what would come to mind if you come across a man in church. However, you should be willing to go to church in the event that things go as planned.
5. Wedding.
This might sound ironical but you never know. Love is in the air and there are a lot of potential chances of meeting the right men. However, you have to make it a point to go alone after you receive the invitation or else you will be sending the wrong messages. An even greater idea is to sit at the singles table you never know, you might just strike a jackpot while there.
4. The Dog park.
If you are a dog lover, you want to have a man who loves pets as well. This will end half the fights that you are most likely going to have. The best chance meeting such a man is at the dog park. Striking a conversation under these circumstances is quite easy and you can quickly find other things that you have in common and probably send some sparks flying around.
3. House party.
The best thing about house party is that all of you have a common friend or two. This shows that all of you might have something in common or a similar mentality. A house party is a great place to meet good men because it offers a great blend of fun and control all in one. This way you find responsible fun loving men not just some hoodlums looking for a quick lay. Even better, you could ask the person who invited you to introduce you to some of their single friends.
2. Book store.
Well, there are not as many men visiting book stores are there are flocking clubs but you can choose to see this a bottleneck effect that makes the task at hand even easier. Men who love books are not only more intellectually upright, but more conservative and responsible. Those are some great qualities.
1. Friends and colleagues.
The best was saved for last. Friends and close relatives can be a great resource for finding great men with good character. This is because, in most instances, the men are close acquaintances to those introducing them to you and as such their character is well known which saves you a lot of trouble.
Common places like the bar and the coffee place are also great places to meet and mingle with single men. However, these 10 give you the best possible chance of landing a man with substance and who will be open to committing.
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