Yes, here we are. You see, dating can sometimes be a crazy business. We may only make conscious effort to avoid some mistakes that puts women off. Take note, there is hardly anyone who is a master at this, we all learn through our mistakes, and sometimes its too costly to be undone. So let us share more ideas to learn from...
1). DON'T CONVINCE HER TO LIKE YOU
NO, don't worry about convincing her to like you. Your ways and manners is what determines her reaction towards you. Women are highly sensitive and they react more to emotions. So it is not a matter of you telling her on the one hand that you are gentle and caring, but, you fly off at the handle at the slightest opportunity. Let her see for herself. Don't get me wrong, words can do magic, but it is said that, action speaks louder...
2). DON'T OPEN YOUR CARDS. LET HER GUESS
Yes, it is one thing for you to tell her you love her, you really feel special with her, you always want to be with her... Most importantly, let her see it. Your logic or reasoning may not cut any ice sometimes, but the emotions you radiate and make her feel or see can do the magic. I bet you she would figure it out on her own. And if she has not as of yet, then leave her mind to wonder. Its part of the game. But, don't worry, she would, women are more emotionally advanced than you think.
3). DON'T BE TOO FOCUSED ON SEX
If you think that women don't know you want to have sex with them, then you are mistaken. In fact some women would feel insulted if you don't make the move towards sex after some time. But be warned, don't rush. They would give you the signs when they are ready and if you handle them properly, they would be ready earlier than you think. Don't make them feel like a slut by rushing them up.
4). DON'T BE TOO EAGER TO PLEASE
Yeah, it is understandable, you want to please her. You don't want to repeat your past mistake(s), yes. But, doing everything to please would make you come across like a wimp, and like you don't have a mind of your own. It is either you become Mr. Nice Guy or a Creep, no woman wants to date either of the two.
5). DON'T BE POSSESSIVE TOO EARLY
Yes, I understand. Every man wants to "own his woman". But, hold on, there will be time enough for you to possess your "possession" (if there is anything like that in this case). But, you must understand she has been dealing with men (perhaps a lot before you met her) so don't go fretting over her associates or "friends" just yet. Take time to study her environment. What you see may not be what you see. You'll learn eventually what gives.
6). DON'T FEEL INFERIOR
You may be thinking that the beautiful girl is into rich men with big wallets alone. You are wrong. Yes, money attracts some women, but, the bottom line is, use your brain. Have a unique approach, be sincere, and genuine. Women can easily see beyond the fat wallet and the shining car. And they need a guy with brains and who knows what to do. Try to know what make s her tick. Your own genuine and sincere approach may get you farther than you ever imagined.
7). DON'T WAIT FOR HER APPROVAL
Yes, just do it. Be spontaneous. Can I kiss you? Can I cuddle you? Can I spank you? Jeezz! What kind of questions are those? Just do it, deep inside they will like you for it. In fact, chances are, if you ask some wrong questions at the wrong time, you would get a 'no I don't like it as such'. Whereas, if you had been spontaneous, she would gladly concur and be grateful for it.
8). DON'T PLAY MR. NICE GUY TOO MUCH
Don't worry, you would have enough time to hold her hand all day long. You would even have more than enough opportunity to 'cancel' your life for her happiness. But, warning, don't make it happen too early on or else you'll scare her away. If she sneezes, its natural that you come up with a handkerchief. But don't overdo it, or she'll take you for granted forever and you may not be able to reverse that. Worse still, she may even think you are too weak to hold her- internal resentment? Stand on your own, give her some work to do too. She'll measure up if she's right for you.
9). DON'T MAKE FALSE ASSUMPTIONS
Yeah, you see a beautiful woman, and you simply assume she'll have too many men running after her, or that she'll be too expensive to maintain. No, that's not shrewd thinking. Most times you are dead wrong. Chances are, many men are thinking like you. Chances are she's aching for someone to ask her. So why are you always passing up your chance to hook up with a beautiful damsel? Go ahead, ask... and it may be given... lol.
10). DON'T BE CARELESS
Yes, acting like you don't care isn't cool. Even if you have strings of women at your beck, it helps to treat this one special. It is about simple and plain good manners. Don't act like she is disposable or something. And while you are with her, stop following everything in skirt that passes with your eyes. It is so un-cool and uncultured.
Well, we are there. However, you may find that you have made one or two mistakes in the past, it's okay to make mistakes. But, the disaster is to continue to make the same set of mistakes over and over. So, the key is change. Change your methods and you would see the difference before long...
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